Phone sex is so appealing because of the mental images you can achieve simply by relaying to someone (or vice versa) what you want to do to them sexually. Many women don't feel comfortable talking dirty over a piece of electronic equipment. It makes them feel silly and holding a phone while you're trying to get your (and your partner's) rocks off, can be a bit challenging! So how can you become the phone sex queen that your lover desires you to be without sounding like a goofy amateur? A few tips and tricks will send you on your way to conquering the phone sex dilemma!
• Phone sex is about feeling sexual and expressing how you feel to your significant other so they can reciprocate the emotion. Sometimes all you need to start your imagination off on a phone sex adventure is a few key phrases. They can be as risqué and allusive as, "I'd love to put my lips all over your body tonight." Or they could be quick, simple, and directly to business like, "I'm so horny for you!" You may be the blushing virgin initially but before long you'll be the ultimate phone sex goddess! Use your imagination and drop your inhibitions at the door. Snuggle up in a dimly lit room with your lover on the telephone and remember, it's all about pleasure! So while your one hand is holding the phone, put that other hand to work stimulating your erogenous zones.
• You don't have to sound like a professional breathy porn star or a seductive actress in your phone sex conversations. Your partner doesn't expect you to be anyone other than yourself (unless you're role-playing, so don't worry about giggling every once in awhile or just using your normal bedroom voice. If you and your beau are both inexperienced when it comes to making the phone love, encourage each other with questions such as, "What would you like to do to me?" or "What would you do if I did this to you?" Get into it! There's a big difference between talking about something completely naughty and doing something not so naughty, like the laundry or the dishes, while you're trying to have phone sex. Close your eyes and really imagine all the things that are taking place in the conversation.
• Sometimes you may hit a snag in the conversation where you or your partner is at a loss for words. This is something that can be easily remedied with a trip down memory lane. Think of a time when you and your partner were realistically physically intimate together and recall those sexy moments over the phone. If you're dabbling in phone sex with someone you've never met in person and you hit an awkward silence, tell them about your fantasies. Replace the part of the lover with them and see where the conversation leads you. Perhaps they have the same fantasy so they can elaborate on how it would go. One more important thing is, let them hear your pleasure! Don't suppress the urge to moan softly.
Phone sex can be a fun and highly sensual way for you to spend some quality, intimate time with your lover from a long distance away. Creativity and imagination go into making this "sex act" possible! If you're afraid of broaching the issue with your significant other, talk dirty face-to-face and see how they react; if their response is one of desire (as it should be), then phone sex can be the next time towards a newfound, pleasurable experience between the two of you.
